Teen Suicides On The Rise

71

By janiek13

Depression-N.O.S.

Our high schools are filled with depressed teenagers. Most survive it. Unfortunately, every year we lose 5000 American teens to suicide. While most suicides are met with shocked denial, in hindsight it seems that there were warning signs. Suicide is the third leading cause of death for 15-24 age group, yet no one wants to think about it. One of the most prolific diagnoses in a inpatient children's unit is depression-N.O.S.( not otherwise specified). There are a couple reasons for that, one the insurance companies insist on a diagnosis before they will pay, and two, a large number of psychological disorders are accompanied by depression. Nothing is more frustrating than to lose a teen patient to suicide; most of their problems are of a temporary nature. Teens whose depression remains unrecognized and untreated may begin to contemplate suicide.

Suicide Prevention Video

Warning Signs

There are warning signs that parents and teachers may not recognize or they may believe that the teen is just being difficult or dramatic. Some of the signs include; mood swings or general irritability, overreacting to a breakup or bad grade, saying goodbye to friends and family, giving away prized possessions, crying jags, preoccupation with death, and romanticizing death. Sometimes a teen will appear to have improved and the depression seems to have lifted right before an attempt at suicide. That may be why friends and family are so shocked at the attempt. In reality, the teen is relieved that a decision has been made. If you know any teen that you believe may be contemplating suicide, immediate intervention is crucial. "Better safe than sorry" could mean the difference between life and death.

HubMobs: Children's Health

  • Resurgence of head lice in the UK

    "Head lice are human parasites which require human blood to survive. They have been around since the beginning of time, at least a few thousand years. Head Lice can live on a human being,... - 2 years ago

  • Childhood Vaccinations : Vaccines to consider

    Childhood Vaccinations are a good way to ensure that your child does not suffer from certain diseases. Here is a list of vaccines that your child must be inoculated with. - 2 years ago

  • How Is Your Child Deaf? What If He or She has Glue Ear? A Best Guide

    Think your child is deaf? How would you know? Perhaps he or she has glue ear? This article is the best guide to explaining what, how and why your child shows signs of temporary deafness and what can... - 2 years ago

Prevention

The prevention of suicide is paramount. Warning signs must be taken seriously and teachers have an important role since teens spend much of their waking hours in school. Once a suicidal teen is identified, care must be taken not to bombard him with probing questions and accusations. Instead, gently broach the subject and let him know that he is cared for and that you are available. Do get him evaluated immediately to rule out other problems such as bipolar disorder and clinical depression. Medication is necessary for some of these disorders. Set him up with counseling and assure him that his confidentiality will not be breached. It is important to the teen that he not be singled out and made to feel "abnormal".  Most suicidal teens do not want to die, they only want the pain to go away. Once you help him see that death is not an option, he should be on his way to recovery.

Comments

carol wilson 2 years ago

Another example is a person being in a room full of people and feeling alone....Laughing on the outside, but crying on the inside...I know that first hand...

janiek13 profile image

janiek13 Hub Author 2 years ago

That is a very good point. I have had times like that also. Thanks for your input!

Raging Bull profile image

Raging Bull 2 years ago

Hi Janiek13, well done for doing a hub on this. Another sign of someone suffering in this way is, that the tone in people's voices change, there is a strange hollowness in their tone and speech. The sound of their voice becomes somewhat far & echoed (if that makes sense).

Suicidal depression is a huge epidemic in our society. Western life does not nurture our human spirits. What Native American Indian's wisdom tells us is that: the western way of life, smothers the fires of people's Spirit!

janiek13 profile image

janiek13 Hub Author 2 years ago

Nice way of putting it, sometimes people themselves smother the fires of our spirit. I used to live with a "smotherer", but I am healing nicely. Thank you for the nice comment.

Raging Bull profile image

Raging Bull 2 years ago

Hi Janiek, lovely. So glad you were insightful enough to know that you had to set your spirit free to heal.

In my case, my children's father was a fully blown smotherer, and when we parted our ways, my Spirit was released to heal and roam free again. Free as a bird. But I tell you what Jankiek, this man tried this with our children.....then Raging Bull came to life....He has not succeeded. This individual was so hell-bent on revenge against me, that he was prepared to sacrifice our children in the process!

Human beings are capable of everything and anything! When it is a destructive force that drives an indivial the consquences can be devastating. In the context of divorce, the children are ultimately the victims.

No one was able to get through me to get to my children. Spent a decade in war to make sure of this........I wasn't about to allow the sacrifice of our innocent babies!

You have inspired me to write a hub about the perils of divorce and the devastating effect this has on children. I would like to share our story to help others 'to fight the good fight.

Keep up your good work.

Love & Light

Billie Raging Bull

janiek13 profile image

janiek13 Hub Author 2 years ago

What a nice compliment, thank you, Raging Bull!

Karen 2 years ago

I blame Al Gore and his incessant push to disparage our children. What child wouldn't be suicidal when they constantly hear that every thing they do or like to do is killing all the poor little penguins and polar bears. Many are afraid to wash their hands, brush their teeth for fear of running out of water. Many children can't sleep for fear of the future global destruction. Al Gore shoudl be indicted for Child Endangerment.

janiek13 profile image

janiek13 Hub Author 2 years ago

Either that or limit your child's exposure to the Al Gore's of the world. Better yet, educate them as to what is a reasonable response to current issues. Thanks for reading my hub.

htodd profile image

htodd 5 months ago

That's really scary..We must find out the cause and remove that..

janiek13 profile image

janiek13 Hub Author 5 months ago

It is scary, but awareness is the beginning of change. There are many causes, but one thing that most suicides have in common is that the victims feel as if there is no other way out of their situation and they feel like they are alone. Reaching out to one teen can make a difference.

Submit a Comment
Members and Guests

Sign in or sign up and post using a hubpages account.



    • No HTML is allowed in comments, but URLs will be hyperlinked
    • Comments are not for promoting your Hubs or other sites

    Please wait working